BREAKING OUT OF THE IDEAL MODE
Breaking out of the Ideal Mode was a feat of an energetic leap for me. Conscious breathing aided me in changing the habit of staying in my mind’s concept principle view of reality. Why? When I went into meditations to focus on opening the heart center at first, my head tried to ramble for my heart. It took several steps of growth. To reach the inner voice that was my own. Instead of a reflection of programmed perceptions. While watching my thoughts flow by in morning practice, it was interesting how my ideas of strength had shaped my ideal vision of excellence.
HONESTY
For instance, if you had asked me a couple of months ago, what do you believe is real male strength? I would get to mental strength on my list.
No holds bar honesty I perceived strength with amazingly cut abs a muscular physique with mental aptitude. I imagine all the bells whistles of emotional intelligence, spiritual, etc. in a mature person. I know of some men who get angry at this as if it’s “wrong” but breathing in a strong masculine scent is part of our social nature.
Commonly, for a vast majority of women who are drawn to men are far more attracted to a higher octane version than a diluted scent of manhood. The less muscle tone, a man, has, the weaker his masculinity imprint is through a sense of smell — the equation of biology.
I have done an extensive study about the universal physiology of scent. It’s too ingrained in our DNA to virtually judge worth through our scent response system.
PERCEPTION
I had it in my mind the Ideal Man of excellence type would be very muscular and be able to do all of the yoga moves, breathing, and fitness expressions I associate with high-level performance. For me, mass meant biological safety, and the opposite was something to avoid. The worst predators I’ve encountered in my life have been lithe muscle to skinny men or women who used their intelligence to be cruel.
BREATHWORK
In breath work, it requires heart work and complete inner awareness. In the interest of “opening up” to being aware, I allowed myself the opportunity to smell more than the body but the mind, soul, heart, and total energy package. Now that has been an illuminating experience.
